Who Will Date Me?

I have been fortunate  in my life to have lovely women who were willing not only to date me but to actually have a romantic relationship with me.  However growing up in a predominately white, middle class suburb of New Jersey where our family was the only Japanese American family and one of a handful of other Asians living there made me highly self-conscious about my "otherness."  Because of my self consciousness which resulted in being very shy, I did not date.  I kept my head down during those school years from elementary school and into graduate school.
If any girl was interested in me I did not notice.  I married someone who was the second only person I dated until then. 

Now I am single again.  I have made stabs at

http://www.womensmediacenter.com/fbomb/what-makes-asian-american-men-undateable

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/1536504218812869